The Goddess Speaks on Love and the Law of Attraction
You are always loved dearest one, you are always loved. Love is within every breath you take, for
love is life itself.
Recently, I ran a Goddess Party in Salem and while we were
in our sacred circle, a woman there received the Goddess card of Self-hood. When
it was her turn to speak about what this meant to her, she surprised the group
in her response. With tears streaming down her face she stated emphatically,
that she doesn't like this idea of Self-Hood. She doesn't want to be with
herself. She is sick and tired of having to take care of her self and she wants
someone else to do it for her. When the group spoke to her about what self-hood
truly meant, being whole and complete unto ourselves, and that it doesn't mean
we have to be alone, she seemed unwilling to acknowledge or even tolerate the
idea.
This beautiful and worried Goddess represents a large number of women, who are stuck in the
fantasy of being rescued and who are losing their connection to the vital force
of love which lives in every single cell of their being. It is so common to feel this way, culturally we were raised to believe that we would be rescued by a man and many of us long for it. But times have changed and I will tell you this…Until
you realize that you are love and already complete, you will continue to create
that which feels unloving and incomplete.
This is the Law of Attraction.
Anything we look for outside ourselves will remain outside of ourselves, until
we realize that what we desire already lives within us.
When you think about the type of love you want to attract, what are the attributes you are looking
for? For these are the keys to your greater experience of love, the keys to
unlocking these aspects within yourself.
1) Do you treat yourself and speak
to yourself as you would speak to the one you love on a daily basis?
2) Are you aware of the inner thoughts, feelings and emotions that keep you from
loving yourself wholly, holy and whole?
3) Do you secretly hold shame about yourself, shame that sets off a vibration of not being good enough to be
loved? Do you feel stigmatized for being alone, unmarried or being single "after a certain age"?
4) are you longing for the one that got away and therefore shutting yourself off from true love and connection?
5) Do you understand that it is not about him or her, but that it is about you and only you?
The Law of Attraction is a Universal law and it states that every thought, action and emotion you put out will come back to you.
What you attract is exactly what you are calling for, thinking of and acting on.
When we focus on what we are lacking we create more lack. Look at how many times
a day you speak about what you don't want and don't like? When the woman with
the self-hood card clearly stated what she didn't want, we can only imagine that
the law of attraction is answering her with more of the same. Be mindful of your
emotions dearest ones, for these are the fertile clay in which you sculpt your
reality, take note that your emotions and subconscious thoughts are truly
calling the shots.
The process towards greater love begins with this awareness
and a shift to a higher vibration.
If you want a lover who is successful, then
you must learn to either see yourself as already successful and focus on your
accomplishments rather than failures, we have all had success along the way, you
may also work on setting goals and take actions towards your own success.
If you want a lover who is attractive, then you must radiate your own attractiveness
and always remember The Beauty is on The Inside. Your relationship to yourself
is the mirror to the relationships you seek.
If you need support to relearn how to love yourself, to reshape your life, and take the baby steps, then get it!
There are many of us whose life work it is to support you in reconnecting to
your goals, dreams and self-love.
As humans we have a dual nature. We have a part that is ego based, born of our perceptions of what we think we should have
and what we are missing. This part always feels incomplete and when we focus
our lives from this perspective alone we continue the spiral. But, we have
another part too, the part that is our soul self, our divine God/Goddess self.
This Self is the spirit of love, beauty, truth, connection and creativity within
us.
Wholeness comes from embracing these dual aspects, it is the marriage we
make within the temple of our own bodies.
Rekindle the relationship with
yourself and allow the Law of Attraction to bless you with a sense of wholeness
and abundant love.
Elizabeth Stahl, LICSW, N.H.C., is the creator and
facilitator of "My Goddess Party", Soaring Beauty and Star of Aphrodite Life
Coaching, The Girls and Goddesses Parties - for girls ages 12 and up. Elizabeth
has 30 years of experience in the Natural Health Field specializing in Women's
Health and Wellness and Spiritual Psychotherapy. She combines her practice as a
LICSW Social Worker and Natural Health Consultant (NHC), with her Soaring Beauty
Life Coaching practice, Goddess Parties and Sacred Women's Circles. Elizabeth
infuses Girls and Women with the essence of their divine feminine spirit and
encourages their growth towards the women they want to be. Elizabeth is
available for private sessions, group work, classes and Virtual Goddess Parties.
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